I'm a christian mom with a problem with my adult kids.

Sharon - posted on 01/09/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I'm lost. I'm devorce. I was married to a verbal abusive man. My kids that are adults now. Blame me over thing that happen in the past. Always wanting me to help them and then when I do the leave and then tell me I'm a bad mom I want to stop this game but don't know how Is seem that abuse neaver stops.

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Ariana - posted on 01/09/2013

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Have you already asked them? If some of them do believe in councelling go to the ones who are willing. I would actually ask all of them and set something up. Even if only one shows up it will show that you're really trying to figure out how to make the situation better. And if none of them show up a councellor would be able to help you figure out what you need to do to fix the relationships. It also leaves it open to them so they may refuse at first but if they know you're going, or that one of their siblings is going, they might decide to come to check everything out.

Ariana - posted on 01/09/2013

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Would your children be willing to go into some sort of family councelling with you? If there are issues of the past they may be trying to get some sort of closure and feel angry at you for allowing the situation to continue. With issues as complicated as that it may be more helpful if you all go into some sort of councelling together to work out the past issues that are probably effecting your relationship today.

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