I'm a Grandma to a 18 mo. old

Nicki - posted on 10/26/2015 ( 11 moms have responded )

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I'm a grandma of a 18 mo. old , through my boyfriend he has coustdy of him. We didagree about some things but I take care of him 24/7. I love this baby with all my heart and at times want to kill grandpa not really. I'm new to this site and grandpa gets upset if I put the baby's name on my laptop. So you know a little bit of my story. Have a good day ladies.

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Raye - posted on 10/29/2015

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Nicki, this forum is geared toward people who seek advice. The conversation would start (for example) by you providing details of what's frustrating you about your husband and/or the child and asking a question such as how to control a fussy toddler or how to get on the same page with your husband to co-parent the child. Then we would offer our opinions based on our personal experiences.

It's okay if you want to write just to vent your frustration, but we may not respond or have a conversation if it appears that there's no questions to answer or if it's unclear what you want from us.

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Dove - posted on 10/29/2015

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That's OK... you can speak for me. I'm too tired to do it myself right now anyway.... lol

Nicki - posted on 10/29/2015

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Dove I guess I was just needing someone to talk to. Maybe I'm not in the right spot.

Dove - posted on 10/27/2015

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Did you post just to share all that or were you looking for something specific?

Nicki - posted on 10/27/2015

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My B.F has coustdy of the baby morty that's what I call him. We've had him through cps lawyers and before that, most of his life morty's parents were never married not together now . Both parents had to go to rehab and the dumb county judge let morty go to rehab with his mommy that lasted one week. Both parents signed papers to let mark my bf have custody well it's three way coustody. We are both in our later50's and where that baby was I wouldn't let a pig live there.








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Raye - posted on 10/27/2015

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Nicki, this is an advice forum. Are you looking for advice? If so, you need to give more details. You don't have to give out names or where you live. But we can't try to help if we don't know what's going on. If you don't want to share, that's fine. I hope you and your BF work it out.

Raye - posted on 10/27/2015

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If it's your boyfriends grandbaby, then technically you are not the grandma until you marry him. Why do you get angry at your BF? What is wrong with the parents that you and your BF are raising the child? Does your BF have formal custody through the courts? Or did the parents just leave the baby there? If it's your BF's family, why are you doing most of the work?

It is good advice not to give out too much personal information on the internet or social media. There really is nothing that is private, and you never know who sees that information and what their intentions are. So you don't have to say the child's name to tell your story here.

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