Frank - posted on 12/17/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
Hello ladies, I need some advice for me and my new wife. Her daughter, my step daughter has started to turn to me more than her own mother. Tries to do little surprises for her mom by telling me something she has not told her mom. Mom gets mad then yells at daughter and then at me. IE Paula doesn't like wearing dresses, told me today that she wanted to surprise mom by trying to wear one to school today but in the end she changed her mind and didn't wear it. When I asked her why she didn't wear it, mom went off and asked why I knew about it and she didn't. When Paula (daughter) said it was going to be a surprise, mom got angry that Paula told me about "surprising" her and kept it from her mom.
What should I do, Im new at having a daughter, I only have 2 boys of my own. HELP!!!