Molly - posted on 10/04/2009 ( 74 moms have responded )
My ex is abusive in every sence of the word. I know alot of girls try to use that in court but from the moment he found out I was pregnate he changed. I thought maybe after I had the baby it would change, it only got worse! I can't belive I let him sign the papers. In the hospital he abandoned us I was all alone, then right after I had our daughter he told me I have 2 weeks to lose the weight and asked for sex. I told him no of coures then he was angry with me because I gave him a girl. It got worse and worse. I finally left after three months because he threw me off the porch and took my daughter. The police said there was nothing I could do. The next morning was mothers day so I went and took my daughter back along with all my things. He has paid for nothing and since we've moved hes only seen her a few times, he's given me 20 dollars or diapers every now and then. But really its not much because then he turns around a sues me for every thing I've got which isn't much either. I told him that the money he is takeing is supposed to go to Isabella he said good. He's basically taking food out of his daughters mouth and is pround of it. I can't let him take her but the only proof of the things he's doing is the diary that I've been keeping. I know he has a drinking problem and smokes pot some times but he hasn't been caught. I'm afraid when he gets caught it will be to late! Please help me I need to keep my daughter safe. He sees her as an object in a game not a infant. He wants her to anger me because he thinks he owns me. I need help form any one! please I'm begging help me. what kind of mother would I be if I didn't do every thing I can to keep her safe even if its from her own father. I'm scared he's going to hurt or niglect her. I know something bad will happen.