Sierra - posted on 08/21/2016 ( 1 mom has responded )
I am 7 months pregnant and as we all know; my pre-pregnancy clothes just don't cut it anymore. I'm having a really hard time with this because I don't work or have income. When I got pregnant I expected for my husband to provide the things I need. That being said I stopped working at 4 months (which is earlier than I feel I should have). We're both young and I feel like he's not mature enough to understand how hard being pregnant really can be. I try my hardest not to ask for the things I want/need because I don't want him to feel like I'm just home all day doing nothing. When I do ask he usually says yes but then after he buys the thing he calls me spoiled. It hurts my feelings to hear him say that. With his most recent pay check he spent $90 in one day just on things he wanted for fun. But when I asked for a couple new shirts he said "we don't have very much spending money" and I ended up leaving Goodwill (a thrift store) with two XL men's t-shirts. I asked for money this paycheck to go baby shopping and he gave me $70 but then called me spoiled that time too. I feel so disappointed and hurt that he doesn't want to buy baby stuff for his son. I really need advice on how I can talk to him about this and show him how his actions are selfish. I hate feeling like I'm not worth the money and I hate that I have to wear the same 3 outfits over and over. Please help!!!