Ashante - posted on 06/19/2013 ( 9 moms have responded )
This pregnancy wasn't planned and we weren't hoping to get another child until he was 3years old but plans obviously didnt work out. I am currently unemployed so my boyfriend was the bread winner of ourfamily for couple months now, in a next week or maybe 2 i will be working and we would have a little bit of a finacial break and pay off what we need to pay off. The problem is my boyfriend doesn't want us to keep this baby because he say's he's not ready to go through another financial situation with another baby and he suggests that i have an abortion. I strongly believe that we can afford this baby as long as we save for the next 9 months and try to budget ourselves as much as possible, and also the fact that we have lots of cupport from my mom and friends. He cannot see my point of view and the fact that I do not want to have an abortion or do I even want to hurt him on the other end. I feel like either way i will be hurting someone either myself or him and even my unborn child. Please HELP!!