Angie - posted on 05/12/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )
I'm in the middle of a divorce....I met my boyfriend during the process. I have two children who are quite young. My boyfriend & I are in love with one another, like that destiny waiting to be found. Only thing is, he doesn't personally have kids and he has always wanted to move out of state for a long time, and he's retiring soon from his current job, date set. He told me he won't be moving out of state for another year or so. I know I can handle the long distance relationship, he said he could too, we've talked about it. We barely talk about him moving anymore though because it bothers both of us, he gets pretty bummed about it. I don't want to be a reason to hold him back from traveling, moving, he's always wanted to do that. But at the same time my heart gets sad and scared at the thought. Do you think in a years time when he has said he plans to move, that he will perhaps change his mind? He hates it here, this state in general. He wants to live near snow and mountains, I wish I could too because I hate this state as much as he does. I know he wants to get married and have a family one day when he moves, I am just scared because I can't move with him with my kids and I secretly want to just ask him to wait for me. I know he wants to be with me long term too. But I don't expect him to stick around for me....or do you think in time he would wait for me?