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Hello everyone I really would like your opinions on my situation please be nice and considerate to my feelings because this situation is very emotional for me. I've been with the father of my child for two years we have a one year old son together I can honestly say that the father of my child is not consistent in his life at all. My son was in the hospital and his dad wouldn't come he told me that he was busy with his friends not only that but It was several times that I called him concerning his son and he would not answer his phone also there was times when he would see his son and tell him Im coming back in a hour and never show. Every holiday would be spent alone with me and just my son I'm a full time mom I take care of my son and I never depended on him for anything because I know deep down he'll never be there or provide for his son even though he have money. He prefers to spend his money on females, marijuana, Xanax, designer clothes, cars also keep in mine he's in his early 20's. My son birthday he didn't buy him anything the only time he will come around is when he feel like it and he never gives me any money for our son he will literally spend 15 minutes with him and take pictures to upload on social websites to pretend he's a good dad but really not. I'm in my early 20's also I have no mother and my father isn't around I'm very overprotective with my son because I know the abuse,mistreated,abandoned I felt at a very young age I'm doing the best I can and people tell me all the time I'm a good single mom. I stopped letting him see his son because every time he said he want to see his son I let him in the house and he's more focused on me instead of his son he also beat me up because he was off drugs I made a police report and now I'm putting him on child support I'm considering visitation so that he can see his dad but I'm fearful of my son going anywhere with him especially because gangs is after his father and I don't feel comfortable with my son being around him and the girl he cheated on me with always says rude things about my son so I don't trust him at all cause he don't respect me or his child I'm just trying to protect my son because I love him with everything in me.