I'm married but I feel I live with a roommate! He ain't lovable and two years of marriage only once he has given me roses :(

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Gena - posted on 10/27/2014

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I agree with Jodi. Marriage is work-team work. You both need to talk to eatch other,find out what both you need to maybe change. And if you feel like the romantic is gone then tell him that and suggest doing something romantic..that could be anything, making a nice dinner at home together,watching a film together,going to the movies together,or a even a night in a city. It doesnt have to be flowers all the time. I do small things for my husband that he aprecciates,like running a bath for him when i know what time he comes home,or making him coffee in the morning on the weekends. We watch a film together when our son is asleep. Its small things like cuddling on the couch watching a film. My husband also does nice things for me that i aprecciate.

Jodi - posted on 10/25/2014

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And roses are your idea of what is loveable and what isn't? Just remember, marriage is work. You can't just assume that it will always be passionate and romantic, you have to work at those things. Both of you. And I'm not just talking roses or flowers. You need to make time for each other, most importantly. Do nice little romantic things for each other. You expect roses, what does he expect? What is he wanting out of your relationship. Have the conversation.

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