Victoria - posted on 04/01/2014 ( 11 moms have responded )
I have been in a committed relationship for a year. It was a fairy tale for me and my boyfriend when we both started dating- everything we do was meant to be (atleast we thought so). Mind you, we both came from unfaithful relationships- so, we both practiced to gain that faith and trust back towards our relationship. We are two jealous people but yet still have that trust that we wouldn't do anything to hurt each other. We moved in together in a one bedroom apartment and were able to financed two beautiful cars.
We are both loving, caring and affectionate couple- we have ups and downs but we are able to lift each other up from our fights. Not to mention, he is going through a divorce with two lovely kids whom i love as if they're my own. We both have faith in God and believe that God works in mysterious ways- Came to find out I'm pregnant, "abortion" was an option. I did not think for someone who truly loves and cares for me would consider me getting an abortion. I was up for it but I came to realize what if this is not an accident? God's blessing is NEVER an accident- it's a challenge but yet a joy to have.
Since we found out I'm pregnant- I was crushed by the decision he made. I don't want him to think I'm trapping him. You think he doesn't want to have another child because he's going through a divorce and scared to have the same ending from his previous marriage? I want to keep this child because it's a gift from God. And I believe that God will guide and be there for me throughout my life!
I know a lot of us women go through this- I don't stress as much because I care about the baby in my stomach. We are such strong human beings that we do whatever it takes to make everything work out the way it should it be. NOW, that we are all carrying a human being in us- It's all about keeping the baby healthy and safe in your body. Let's not stress about the father or who will help you raise the baby. The more you enjoy your pregnancy and embrace God's gift to us- I am guaranteed that God has MORE THAN A BLESSING to our life and our child. Keep your head up and leave it up to God.
Let's stay strong and positive!