Tracy - posted on 01/28/2016 ( 20 moms have responded )
I found out that my 13yr old daughter and my boyfriends 16yr old son had sex on my living room couch about 6 mos ago she was a virgin and has just turned 14. My boyfriend and I have discussed at length how their relationship is not healthy for either of them. I had hoped that it would just fizzle out but they seem to think they are in love and that are going to spend the rest of their lives together. There are so many issues I have with them having a romantic relationship, I have so much anger about the disrespect of them actually having sex in my living room when I was back in my bedroom taking a nap. I have so much resentment towards them both and they are both good kids. The boy's dad and I have been in a relationship for over a year and have talked about marriage but honestly I think.....how can I marry a man when our kids have had sex and still like each other, I mean I feel like we will constantly have to watch them never be able to go to bed without wondering if they are sneaking around in the house. I'm just so angry and disappointed I know kids screw up but I honestly don't know what to do with this.