Amber - posted on 04/20/2011 ( 6 moms have responded )
Okay, so I have a beautiful 22 month old girl, who is my world. I babysit a 6 year old little boy who I have been keeping since he was about 10 months old. I pretty much raised him because his mother is a single mom who had to work 2 jobs to pay the bills. So I had in about 90% of the day mon-fri. Well my daughter is his "baby sister" and you can't tell him any different (not that I mind) I love the fact that she has on "older brother" she did things early because she wanted to keep up with him. Anyway sorry for my rambling while I'm at work on the evening my mother keeps my daughter and Colin (6 yr old). She told me the other day while I was gone to work that she caught him and my daughter in the bathroom with the door shut and she was naked. Now granted my daughter LOVES to stay naked and you have to redress her atleast 10 times a day. But what worries me is that he got really nerves like he was caught looking at my daughter naked and I know that its normal to want to explore but being the mother of a GIRL it makes me stomach turn at the thought. Has this ever happened to anyone else if so do I talk to him about it because it was my daughter or do I tell his mom and let her talk to him or do we do it together or just let it go? Any advice on which way to go would be SO great. Thank you ladies for your time!