Melissa - posted on 12/24/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )
I separated from my ex nine months ago and I refuse to take him back.
My son is 5. His father has never been interested in having anything to do with him until I refused to take him back.
Now my ex spreads awful lies about me and refuses to co-parent.
My boy is having a tough time with all this so I organised for him to see a counsellor and advised my ex, but now my ex refuses to give his 'permission' so now my boy can't go.
My ex took me to court saying I wasn't giving him enough visitation, even though he was getting what we previously agreed to, so now he gets more time.
My questions are these;
How do I accept this new reality?
How in this world am I going to cope when my boy is not here?
I miss him so much, I feel like my heart breaks when I have to send him off.
I hope someone can help me, please.