Sheran - posted on 10/06/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )
My partner of six years, a couple of days ago announced he wants his eldest son back in our lives again. After abandoning him two years ago and having no contact and refusing talk about his son from a previous relationship. Our two boys we have got together do not know about their other brother, how do I tell a four year old and a two year old about their brother? Also whenever my partner has contact with his other son and his ex it's like we do not exist to him. I've tried talking to him tonight and he blasted and shouted at me and has stormed off... What do I do, I'm scared that this will cost me my relationship and my sons will be dragged through hell because the ex isn't the nicest of people and stops access and us being apart of his life when it suites her! I just don't want my children go through this and come out hurt because it's one big game to her and I lived four years living on egg shells with my partner and her.... PLEASE HELP...