I need advice

Crystal - posted on 02/21/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My son and family moved in with me they was suppose to be moving so they could go to school they was only suppose to stay with me long enough to get things ready to move out of state they now have been with me six months paying no bills doing nothing but sleeping all day and staying on the computer all night I'm a nurse and I have to work long hours to pay my bills because my husband is hurt and waiting on his disability they let my granddaughters who is one and two eat all through the house they leave messes and will not clean up if I say any thing they tell me well since you don't want us here we will leave and you will never see the babies it's really breaking me down because I love my granddaughters but it's tearing me and my husband apart and it's got me where I don't even want to go home it's sad because them babies is all about some granna

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Crystal - posted on 02/21/2015

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Thanks,Michelle I know what I have to do it's just hard because I love them girls so much and I know when I put my foot down my daughter in law and son will take them and use them to hurt me because they will be angry I've never been a push over till now I will take your advice because I need peace of mind

Michelle - posted on 02/21/2015

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It's your house and you can let them know they either pull their weight (help with bills, cooking and cleaning) or leave. Let them know that if they are going to be petty enough to threaten you with not seeing your grandchildren, then you will take them to court for Grandparents visitation.
They are using that over you so you will do what they want, not what they should be doing. They are adults and should be supporting themselves.

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