i need advice about a bad dad and how i need to handle it

Beth - posted on 11/28/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




my husband kicked me and our 7 month old daughter out he gave us enough money to get back to ga and that was it i havent found a job yet and if i need help with our daughter he wont do it he tells me he has no money but goes out to eat all the time and goes off with friends i know that he is more than likely cheating on me and im wanting a divorce but he has been verbally abuseive to me and he told me that if we got a divorce he would fight for sole custody bc im an unfit mother bc i havent found a job up here yet and i dont know what to d i need help


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Dove - posted on 11/28/2012




Get state help and keep looking for a job. Your employment status won't be enough to lose you custody, but if you don't have a place to live... that could do it.

Holly - posted on 11/28/2012




well if he kicked you out, that means you are separated, and him sleeping around at this point is NONE of your business. you don't know if his friends may be paying for his meal when they go out. but i would definitely file for divorce, and even if he does get sole custody, at least the child would be homeless. find a job, even if it is working at a McDonalds or Walmart, its better than nothing. While you are working there, you can look around for another job.

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