I need advice....help..

Kisie - posted on 02/23/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Well I was dating the father of my unborn child for a year,we did have a good and close relationship but he did some immature things like when we argued sometimes he talked to other girls and when he had a job he was trying to talk to this girl.when I would break up with him he would always be in denial.we just recently broke up like 2 days ago.I'm 3 months pregnant and his sister I knew for a long time put her hands on me an I defended myself she also kicked me in the stomach when I had her on the ground.i decided to press charges and he's been acting funny towards me alittle bit before we broke up and told me that I wasn't pressing charges on her for our unborn child I was pressing charges to be evil and that made me cry because I'm not being evil.i broke up with him because He was barely textinG or calling and he would treat me like crap. Well he hasn't texted or called me or nothing.I feel really bad and worried that he has moved on already and I been crying.I was wondering how do I forget this guy and get over him? I wanted an abortion because his family is not the best role models...his mother drinks everyday,his sister has 4 kids and is 21 and her husband smokes pot and sells it while she works...my baby's father is 21..he got an apartment with his mom temporarily and doesn't have a job right now.but used his income tax to buy cable,a cash car with no license,clothes,and etc. he's a bit irresponsible..it's only been a couple of days but he's been a jerk to me and not really contacting me..I feel bad for pressing charges but I did it for my unborn child.I was also wondering if she will get jail time? I feel bad bc she has 4 kids.

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Kisie - posted on 02/24/2014

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I was thinking about it however I won't get an abortion.I just fear my child being around the family.Thats all.

Michelle - posted on 02/24/2014

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So your wanting an abortion because of the way his family is but you pressed charges for your unborn child.
I think you would be best to forget about him but keep in mind that if you have his baby you will be tied to him for the rest of your life.
It doesn't sound like you have a healthy relationship or even one that will last. You also sound very immature yourself and I think you need to grow up a bit before you are responsible for another life.

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