I need advice. I feel very unloved and unappreciated. my husband comes home from work and goes straight to the baby (which is really good I know) but I feel like he's not into me anymore doesn't appreciate that I clean the house all day take care of the baby and dog and still wants a massage at night and barely compliments me anymore. he was so sweet to me before. I just don't understand if I'm doing something wrong. I always say how much I love him I really try my hardest not to fight. he got mad at me the other day for dropping the dog off at daycare so I can get a break because of money. I don't understand I let him go out and will drive him and pick him up, massages almost every night it seems like he's happy but distant. I don't know what to do....any suggestions?

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Jodi - posted on 04/10/2015

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Or maybe it is just your perception? If you aren't coping with the dog.....have you considered you may be suffering a little post-partum depression? PPD can skew your perception on things.

Jessica - posted on 04/10/2015

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The baby is very young still and the dogs daycare is cheaper than taking her to daycare lol
Yes I did talk to him but he said everything is fine. I just don't know if hVing a baby stops the affection towards the wife. Maybe I'm overthinking it. Idk.

Jodi - posted on 04/10/2015

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I'm a bit confused why you'd drop the dog off at daycare to get a break. The baby, maybe, but not the dog.....but anyhoo....

Have you talked to your husband about how you are feeling?

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