I need advice my boyfriend is cheating again

Tessa - posted on 11/16/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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OK ladies Im new to all of this, So i moved to another state for a guy i hardly new. I found out he cheated after i moved here. I decided to move forward with the realtionship this was in April. in Aug i found naked pics of this girl on his phone. I ended moving back to my home state. he asked me to come back several times and i did then yesterday i found out that he has still been talking to this same her so she says. keep in mind this girl is not classy and refuses to stop talking to him because she feels she has no reason to. Ive given up my life and my kids life for this guy and Im not sure why I keep giving him chances. Any advice would be helpful. I also am thinking about giving him another chance this time if he stops but i dotn know if he will.

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Dove - posted on 11/16/2012

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He will never change. He's proven that to you several times already. Do you want to spend your life with a man who has zero respect for you and teach your children that it is ok for a man to continuously cheat on a woman? How would you feel if your son was treating another woman the way your boyfriend treats you? How would you feel if your daughter's boyfriend was cheating on her repeatedly and she kept putting up with it? Answer those questions and you have your advice.

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Amy - posted on 11/16/2012

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He's just a boyfriend, this is when he supposed to be on his best behavior, and hiding all his bad traits! The fact that he's doing this as a boyfriend shows what a horrible husband he would make, move on!

Tessa - posted on 11/16/2012

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I know what you mean. i just dont know what it is so hard for me to move on and let go. I have nothing in this town expect for him and i dont really have him. I would like to move back to my home state but just feel like i cant

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