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all the kids feed off eachother so every discipine dont work. they all knowingly understand right from wrong so age isnt a factor. timeout failed the fastest.. all the kids r out of control and the house is a zoo and as loud enough to loose hearing.the 12yr dont act her age. she acts like the other three and she has in the past . now she has seen the little kids get treated diff so she joined in but also picks on them in ways that arent seen or heard. the 6yr has a bad bad mouth and worse addittude. she tries to be a little mommy but a little too far but tells me she wants me dead. the 4yr is the golden child at preschool but the mask comes off at the threshold. he cries and super screames to get his way or what he wants. he will do something bad n look at you and laugh. the bad mouth is there to but diff type of words. he says the hate you, i dont like you, leave me alone stuff and not cussing like the 6yr. the 3yr gets worse everyday. hes the only one home all day and no school so he got more attention. now he fits right in w the others. the addittude is shocking from a 3yr. his mouth and dirty looks is worse than a adult. he also demands while screams to get what he wants. idk how many times ive heard im not mommys boy anymore,i dont like you when hes told no. i see the 4 have created a pattern. like i said they all feed off eachother. i know they pick up on what works and dont work regarding the different ages. this is such a problem a ten min trip to anywhere turns into atleast a hour. they are not trusted and are embarrsing in public but they cant stay home cause there wont be a house. my mom has tried to help me stick to diff dicipline ideas since the 12yr is my little sister and nothing works for all of them. when it dont work for one the others see that and it dont work for all. please help!!