i need alot advice haha i just dont know what to do anymore

Kaitlyn - posted on 01/18/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )

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im 13 weeks pregnant and the father is not part of the the picture but i have found out lately that he had mutiple partners and he got anther girl pregnant and she had an abortion but i also got clymdia from him and i just dont know what to do or cope with all the stress and i mite have something else now to but my doc said i dont but i feel like i have gential warts im kinda freaking out if anyone could just give me advice or just talk to me im kinda losing my mind now i thought being pregnant is suppose to a happpy time in ur life

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Michelle - posted on 01/19/2015

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Only you can decide what you do. I understand that the baby will be a reminder of what he has done to you but it's up to you how you move forward. Maybe go and see a counsellor to help you with your decision.

Kaitlyn - posted on 01/19/2015

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i asked him to do that the last time i saw him n when he did the pap he didnt say anything im kinda back n forth on giving it up for adoption or keeping it

Michelle - posted on 01/19/2015

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I would go back to your doctor and ask for him to do all the tests he can while you're pregnant. There may be some tests that have to wait until after you deliver though.
Make sure you only have contact with the Father of your child about the child. I would also recommend getting yourself a lawyer and getting visitation and child support organized ASAP.

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