Tracey - posted on 02/05/2010 ( 10 moms have responded )
at first everything seemed to be working out ok, but now all i want to do is rip out my hair. she is a clean freak. because there are 5 of us in the house she wants the whole house vacuumed 3 times a week, monday, wednesday and friday. but know that she will no longer be working from the house i feel its gonna be my responsibility. i think its nuts i mean we leave our shoes at the front door. also she tells me what to do with the stuff in our bedroom. i mean i know we do not pay rent but what is she doing in that bedroom. nothing of her's is in there. i mean i am 26yrs old can't i have some privacy. just a little. and when i clean the bathroom if she has no idea that i did it she questions me. like when did you do it and around what time. also when i do clean she goes very sneeky like to check to make sure that it was done. i am not a 12yr old child but she makes me feel like i am. i get the impression its "do as i say, not as i do" and when i am out of line i get my butt handed to me not only by her but my Father-in-Law and i don't think its fair. but when she is out of line no one cares. i feel like she is just to used to being the boss and we need to cooperate here. i don't know what to do anymore. i give her respect but i feel i'm not gettig it in return and i'm 15 weeks pregnant and i'm worried its gonna get worse towards the end of my pregnancy and i feel we will butt heads when the baby is born. i mean i am not a first time mom i have a 4 1/2 yr old so i need advice on what to do before i scream at her.