I NEED HELP MOMS. PLEASE

Shanice - posted on 01/08/2014 ( 5 moms have responded )

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My fiancé is about to go to jail for something he didn't do. I'm pregnant with our first child and I don't know what to do now. I'm scared depressed and we just got off the phone with his lawyer and they said he'll have to get away from the house til Monday if not they are coming to get him. And there is not telling how long they will keep him. There is no extra income coming in due to his injury from work. So I'm really stuck and I don't want to stress because I'm carrying but I don't know what else to do. And I don't know if my parents will help us. What advice can you give me moms please help me..

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/08/2014

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An attorney advocated fleeing the police? That's a bit much.

If he did nothing, he has nothing to worry about. If he's worried, chances are he was involved in something...

Take Amy's advice, make sure you and the baby are secure. If he's been encouraged to flee, and he does, it only makes him look more guilty.

Shanice - posted on 01/08/2014

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I mean he did no crimes or anything. His uncles and dad has a rep and police been watching him. And since someone sent threats to me he got mad and almost went after him. And the people that threaten me killed both his uncles. Now police want him for nothing. And he don't do anything. He just spends time with me and my family. He does do anything that his family did. That's why I'm so hurt. I just feel like it's not right to punish someone that did nothing wrong and there's cruel people out here hurting people that stay to themselves. And we are well none people in church and in the community.

Amy - posted on 01/08/2014

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I know it is but you have to start thinking about yourself and this baby you're going to bringing into the works. My ex was fired from his job and I stayed by his side as long as I could and after 6 months and him not doing anything to make the situation better I went to my parents and asked for help in paying for an attorney. I know he thinks I left him because he lost his job but I knew nothing was going to change and I wasn't going to spend another minute with him knowing the future held nothing good for us. We are divorced, I am much happier, still struggling financially but I'm a much better mom for my kids without him. I don't even ask about the criminal case pending against him, it's his business and we only communicate for the kids sake.

Amy - posted on 01/08/2014

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You need to stop worrying about your boyfriend and focus on you and the baby. I would also think turning himself is a better option than running from the police. Let your boyfriend worry about his legal problems and call your parents and ask for help. They'll probably be more willing to help you and the baby alone than with your boyfriend in tow unless they really like him.

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