I need help understanding what is expected out of a stay at mom of 4 and 8 months pregnant?

Krystal - posted on 07/31/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Since I've quit work 3 months ago my fiancé hasn't helped with dishes, dinner, laundry, taking the trash out, helping with the pets or anything for that matter. He makes the biggest messes leaving clothes, baseball caps and dishes everywhere, wet towels after the shower on the bed and more. I feel I'm constantly cleaning/ picking up after him and the kids and he doesn't recognize it.

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Michelle - posted on 07/31/2012

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You really should sit down with him and work out who should be responsible for what. My husband works full time but still does the laundry, dishes and generally cleans up after himself. I do all the cooking so it's only fair that he cleans.

I also don't have to ask him to do any of it. He knows what needs to be done so will do it.

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