I need of advice: My sons father is mean!!!!!

Tracy - posted on 05/12/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )




Hello, I am a 29 year old single mom. My beautiful son is 2 years old. I am seeking to have positive conversations with other single moms regarding: food, sleeping, mean baby-daddy, toddler activities, etc.

I am under a lot of stress because my sons father nitpicks about everything that I do; however; its never about the well-being of our son. It's about things such as: his hair, clothes, froot-loops, my dating life, and other STUPID PETTY STUFF. Its never about his health, safety, education, neglect/abuse. And he can never say I am not doing my job because I always make sure my son is safe, protected, healthy, educated, etc. He complains about minor things, he is small minded and blows up over small things. He has serious anger issues and does not have a healthy relationship with his mother. I am so sick and tired of him and his girlfriend is bitchy at times as well. She had the nerve to show up to the Mothers Day Breakfast that my son had at his daycare- that was complete disrespect. And my sons father did not think she did anything wrong. How do I deal with my sons father who is mean, belittles me, disrespects me, and doesn't care about me? I have to deal with him to a certain extent for our son, but it seems like its always something. He is jealous of me, which means he is not a man.


Jodi - posted on 05/12/2015




You make it clear to him that unless the discussion is about the wellbeing of your son you will not participate, and walk away. Of course he doesn't care about you - that's why you are no longer together.

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