Kim - posted on 01/17/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
i have a step brother that was diagnosed with adhd and also aspergers.... One doctor says both the next says just adhd. He is 20 years old now and my parents are at a stand still and dont know what to do. He is very smart and is able to do anything thats why many people dont see any thing wrong with him. He has a bad habit of lieing, he has a hard time acting his age hes 20 but acts14 is.. socially he is not smart at all.. He has a hard time interacting with girls we are afraid of him getting introuble bacause no matter what girl he comes accross he right away wants her to be his girlfriend. He had a job and was doing great but then got fired for sexual harrassment due to a unwanted hug. Now we are afraid to let him have another job cause we dont wont him in jail. He is obsessed with talking about him self and making lists about his likes and dislikes and his personality. He thinks he is the best at everything and obsesses over it. I took him to my 8 and 5 yr old school function not to long ago and he could stay in one place because there was so many kids and he had to talk to all of them and be the center of everyones conversation. In his mind he is good at entertaining little kids. He has been sneaking on the internet and talking to different girls some in chat room and some on x rated sites and he dosent understand that some of these girls arnt real and could be a child. is there anywhere that we can go to get him help and the services that he needs??