I need some comfort and advice :(

Ashley - posted on 09/17/2016 ( 1 mom has responded )




My relationship with my bf is falling apart. I don't know how it got to this point. He doesn't treat me the same anymore. He was so kind and gentle. Now hes mean with a temper. Recently our arguments have been about him wanting to go out every weekend while leaving me home with our new born. I find it selfish when he knows I'm depressed and not well. He tells me to tell him about my feelings but it always turns into an argument. He would leave the house and probably won't come back for hours or the next day which is super stressful on me when i have to heal and tend to the baby. Also, I don't feel like he's being faithful in his heart. I know this generation accepts a lot of behaviors, behaviors that wouldn't have been normal in an age where relationships and marriages actually worked. In my bfs history, I found out he was looking up porn, local escorts, and sex cams etc.. to me porn and things like this is legal prostitution. He shouldn't be looking to other women to get satisfaction. He knows I feel hurt and betrayed but he doesn't care. As a matter of fact, he thinks I'm wrong to feel this way. :'( Is it wrong to feel this way?


Michelle - posted on 09/18/2016




You are allowed to feel any way you want. There's is no right or wrong in how you feel about things.
If he isn't wanting to be with you and help you through your depression then you know what you need to do. It's not healthy for you or your child to be constantly upset.
His actions are showing you that he doesn't care about either of you, only himself. Do you really want to be in a relationship where your partners cares more out himself than you? That's very selfish and not what a partnership should be.

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