Charmainebischoff - posted on 07/23/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
I am a very young my husband is alot older then I am, we have two kids together and he has a son from a previous relationship, he favours his son and if his son (8) cries he does anything to give him what he wants, if one of my duaghters cries they either get a hiding or get yelled at. This upsets me so much he is very controling and when I would tell him you cannot control me he would simply say I am your husband so You will do as I say I have so many plans for my life and kids life. If he works withour money it'll magicaly dissapears, he lies about how much he spends and on what he spends it, This is such an unfair life for my kids to have as they just have to be happy with the scraps and hand me downs, I do not know where to find a shelter for me and my duaghters and I need to find a new job that pays better as he has made it clear that if I ever leave him he wants nothing to do with the girls... I feel lost and am unhappy everyday of my life I want a better life. Any help?