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My husband and I got married in aug 2011. I knew that he looked at porn before we got married and it is what it is. It never really bothered me. I am now 20wks pregnant and discovered on his phone a couple of weeks ago that he has been on a social networking site and pretending to be a 17ish age boy and befrending 16-17 yr old gils to get raunchy pics of them to exchange w other men. He also was texting another women who lives 2 hrs away who is the ex of one of his good friends. I know that these are symtoms of a bigger issue. He has never really been serious w anyone other than me, he has always been very overweight and super insecure. We have been having issues lately anyway and I have had really bad depression and mood swings. I had completely shut him out. We have alot on our plates but I love my husband and waited to get married (I am 30) and have a baby. We are going to counseling together and individually. I am struggling but am not willing to seperate or even consider divorce. If this info got out he would be so embarrased and shunned...as he should be,.,,, Are there any moms in similar situations?