Emilie - posted on 07/21/2010 ( 12 moms have responded )
When my kids (they are 7 and 3) came back from their dads house on Sunday they said that their dads sisters boyfriend was masturbating (they didn't use that word though)in the car. My son said that he was parked in front of the house and he had one of the neighbor girls in the car with him (she is 14) and he was taking picture of his Penis, and my son saw him in the car and he saw the pics.
My son also told me on a separate occasion that he was taking a bath and that man came in there and was rubbing my sons Penis. My daughter is 3 she said that he touched her private but she is so young I don't know if she is just saying that because my son said the he touched his.
I reported this to the police but they aren't sure if they can do anything unless they get the cooperations of the girl that was in the car. They also want to arrest my ex because of failure to protect his children. I hope that they arrest his siters BF, but I am not sure if I want for my ex to get in trouble, he might of not known about any of this, I just want for his sisters BF to be in Jail, and I don't want him around kids anymore.
Yes my past post did say that my sister reported it, she reported it to CPS, I talked to the police today.
I am not really sure what my ex knows,because he has never said anything to me about anything happining, it is always my son that tells me stuff. He knows that his sisters BF got her pregnant when she was 15 and he was 19, but his family never pressed charges. He also got a 14 year old girl pregnant when he was either 18 or 19 and he went to jail for that and then the family of that girl dropped the charges.
I have said to him before that I didn't want the kids around the BF before but I don't thik he really took me seriously, I guess he thought that the kids were not really in any danger. Then the kids would tell me that they were around him when I told him no to have the kids around him. I talked to CPS in the past and they told me that I couldn't control what goes on in his house or who is at his house.