Jeannie - posted on 05/26/2016 ( 5 moms have responded )
Im 6 months pregnant and am unwed and single. The father of my child and I split up bc I found out that he was doing drugs and had been hiding it from me even after we found out i was expecting. This resulted in our power getting turned off and getting $1300.00 behind in rent, neither which i had an idea about until after the fact. He wasnt excited when we found out i was expecting, never asked about my dr appointments or wanted to go to any, and when i bought things for the baby, he could of not honestly of cared less. Now after I left him, he suddenly showed interest into my son and says he has been trying to stay clean, which i found out wasnt completely true.... I told him we can communicate but only if its about my child. He has not followed those guidelines,and has sent me hundreds of messages not inquiring or asking about my son at all, but instead about him and I getting back together. I have told him numerous times that that will not happen. Now its gotten to the point of harassment. He has blown up my mom, my little sister, and even my boss at my Job, still not asking anything regarding my son. I have threatened a restraining order if this continued, which did nothing. Im to the point now that I want to tell him that he is not the father, because honestly, it feels like he only shows any interest in my son because he thinks it will get me back with him. Hes not going to be put on the birth certificate and my son will have my last name. I really just want him out of our lives. I need help on what to do or what I can do.