Estrllagrr - posted on 06/21/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )
Should I let my 13 & 14 daughter go live with my 22 year old daughter that has a 6 yr old daughter and 1 1/2 yr old daughter and in a couple of days her newborn will be here. It really hurts that they don't want to live with me anymore they tell everything to my oldest why they dont want to live here anymore but why dont they tell me anything what goes on with them. I just found out that one of them cuts her self. When I found that out it really hurts. See am not married I have a boyfriend that has been with me for almost 10 yrs we have one child together, she is 9 yrs old. More less he has raised all my other kids . See I have lived a abusive relationships in the past with my kids fathers there fathers have not seen them since they were babies so more less my boyfriend has been there for them no matter what he works his butt off and he tries to tell them how the real world is out there he also has been in a bad experience when he was growing up, his been there done that and like I dont know how to discipline my kids I just let them do what ever they want to do but when I got with my boyfriend everything has changed they say he is very strict with them yeah we get into it cause of them because I try to cover them up so bad that it back fires on me and I we start arguering. And more less I could go on and on anyway what should I do Im so upset can anyone give me some advice. Please!