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I have a distant cousin (one of my Great-Grandma's cousins childrens childrens children) who is a homosexual, we are both in our early 30s. I have 2 sons and i'm not really interested in having any more-maybe (but i would love to have a daughter) The subject came up and basically i have been asked to have a baby or 2 for him. I'm not totally against the idea, infact it is actually growing on me!
Although the baby would not live with me, i would have full access, i would be called Mummy, i can even take the baby on holidays with my sons... Etc
His Mother is desperate for Grand-Babies from him (she has four other children and two grand children already) and she is quite a good friend of mine (which is how this whole thing came about) So the baby would not be short of love and affection by any means.
He is a great guy doing really well for himself, has a great personality and a fantastic attitude towards life.
BUT in my family>>> Family is family no matter how distant! We were ALL raised as first cousins (practically brothers and sisters) and that is the end of that! It will be seen as truly disgusting to say the very least!
I would love to hear your opinions on the matter before i make any decision or commitments. thank you in advance.