Annmarie - posted on 07/01/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )
my 16 year old son has been smoking for over 1-2 years, I had no idea until about one month ago.
He came home smelling of weed. I purchased a drug kit at cvs however he told me that he had smoked only 4-5 times (lie #1) Fast forward to this past weekend. I went downstairs and was compelled to check a drawer under the tv stand. Low and behold 500 in cash all in 20's,,pipes and baggies. I was floored. My son who is a good student is selling. I took the iphone and started checking the text, well I think half the kids in my town smoke. One kid looking for weed for him and his father. I deleted all the texts re: weed and told several that the police will be informed not only on my son but others that are trying to buy. He told me he has made about 3,000 since 2/14..there was a text that his supplier was caught with 3 pounds and no longer in business. I told my son he will be randomly tested and that he is on thin ice. Well test #2 came out negative , however the computer downstairs was never deleted. My son had ordered synthetic urine on line @ 75.00 the guaranteed that he would always test clean. (lie #2), now myself and husband ground him till we figure out where to go from here. Tues I found out he left the house to give the rest of his weed away. He told me somebody was holding it for him, also there is wax the oils of the plant that they inhale. I have shed so many tears I don't know what to do anymore. I told him of all the danger including criminally . I told him it he chooses to continue when he is arrested he is not to call me. He will remain in jail and I have no intentions of going to court. I would welcome any suggestions at this point. I thought about going to the police but so many people told me not to..