Kasandra - posted on 05/12/2013 ( 59 moms have responded )
So, I have racked my brain, done research, spoken with some people, and now asking you. Is it possible that my 6.5 month old baby boy is trying to communicate with myself, his big sister, and his father? He passed away in October 2012 from accidental positional asphyxia in our old place of residence...(my sons father's mother still lives there) Allow me to explain my experiences as to why I believe this...
*My daughter (who is 4) has dreams about her brother constantly. Sometimes good, some bad...
She has told me numerous times that Jace came and visited her in her dream.
The VERY FIRST time she had mentioned that she had dreamed about him this was our conversation.... "mommy, Jace likes Heaven." "Ya? How do u know that?" "He told me" she says... "When did he tell you that?" "He visits me in my dreams mama.... He says to tell you that he loves you and that he wipes your tears when you cry. He said its okay mama, and you don't have to cry for him, he's always by your side"
Now, at that moment I lost it... I had NEVER cried in front of my daughter till that moment. I tried so hard to be strong for her so that she wasn't afraid to cry to me if she had needed to... So how would she know that I cried all the time?
She now says things like, "Mommy I saw Jace last night, he says he loves and misses his mommy and daddy and sister and that he will visit again soon."
I'll ask her generic questions like why she finally cleaned up her mess when i had been asking for the past 5 hours... she would answer with cuz Jace said he'll be upset if I keep not listening.
She misses her brother very much, sleeps with his blanket, and his stuffed elephant... talks about him as if he was here still. "Jace said I'm not allowed to come to heaven to see him cuz I have to get old first"
Now, the weirdest thing that has ever happened to me was when I was working:
So I am a server. I see a ton of people every day. On Easter 2013 I was sat my last table of the evening... It was a older lady with dark clothing on, stringy, frizzy, dark brown hair with some gray... in all honesty she looked like a witch... So my first thought was, oh great my last table of the day is gonna be fun... sarcasm.... I approached the table introduced myself and asked for her drink order... and all she did was stare at me as if I was speaking a foreign language... I said "Ma'am, do you know what you would like to drink?" she kinda snapped outta it and said "oh yes pardon me, sweet tea." I slowly backed up turned around and went to get her beverage.. She never took her eyes off of me.. I placed her drink on the table in front of her and said "Ma'am are you ready to order" Again, all i got was a blank stare, and then another "I'm so sorry" She then told me what she wanted... Before I went to turn away the says to me "Miss, may I ask you something?" "sure".... She then said, "Please forgive me, I do not ever do this but... does the name Jace mean anything to you?" My heart about dropped.. "I said, umm why would you ask me that" she says, "My name is Jean and I am a medium... I own a shop in ***********" (Near a town in my area.) She said "When I walked through the doors of this restraunt I felt the strongest presense and when they sat me at your table and you walked over here, I knew the spirit behind my feeling was steming from you. This sense that I had was so strong that I had to ask you about the name that I kept hearing." I told her "yes that name means quite a lot to me.. That is my sons name." She said "hmm that is strange, i very rarely get infants that try to communicate" I was shocked that she knew even those two little details. She started telling me things about my son and my daughter and his father that a stranger would NEVER guess. She also said that Jace visits Madi (my daughter) in her dreams to make sure that she is okay... Because of the bond that Madi and her brother had/have he will continue to communicate with Madi, and us until Madi wants to close that part of her mind. She wanted me to come see her.. myself, jace's father and Madi... i have been nervous and have not done it yet....
I was just wanting to see if anyone else has had any dreams/ any situations similar to this?? Whats your opinion?