I think my boyfriend is too rough with my son

Manda - posted on 07/15/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years now. We live together and just a baby (he's two months) but I also have a 4 1/2 yr old son from a previous relationship. We think my 4 yr old may have ADHD. He's very hard to handle sometimes. I just went back to work about 3 weeks ago and I'm only working part time.my older son goes with his dad on the weekends so my boyfriend only has to watch him one day a week while I'm at work. We are all having a hard time adjusting to the new baby and I think my bf is taking out on my 4 y.o. son. Last week I found strange marks on his shoulder. My bf said he didn't know how it happened (maybe at his dad's). And tonight I found a round bruise on his chest while I was giving him a shower. My bf watched the kids yesterday while I was at work.I have seen my bf poke his chest before when he was mad at him. When I'm home, my bf will grab his shirt or his arm and yell in his face. We have fought about it several times that I think he's too rough with my son. I don't know what to do

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Monique - posted on 07/15/2015

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U siund as if u know wat u gotta do. I respect u for that. I hope he gets the help. Mt biyfriend needs help n admits it just doesnt care enough to get it. Take care. God bless. U n ur family are in my prayers.

Manda - posted on 07/15/2015

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Thank you. I am going to try to rearrange my work schedule. My son said he doesn't know how he got the marks on him. I love my family very much and I want to get my boyfriend help. He's a good man but does not know how to handle his stress

Monique - posted on 07/15/2015

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Honey, I am in a difficult situation in my relationship too. I don't know how you and your boyfriends communication with one another is, IO know for me I just get straight disrespected. When it comes to our children, we have to stand strong and be bold but respectful, you know. What is your gut telling you? Honestly have you asked your son how he got the bruise? I would be so afraid for my child. If you think it could be your boyfriend, try and not have him watch your son, if you have another option. If he is doing that to your son in your face imagine when your not around. Pray honey, please. Use your better judgement for the sake of your son. His safety n security is on you. I know its hard. Please pray . I am so sorry your son is going through this and that you are going through this as well. I am so sorry. He needs to respect the fact that you feel he is too rough. I tell you my so called boyfriend is an ass girl. sorry off subject. Even if your son has ADHD, no one should be hurtin him at all. There is a lot of children being hurt these days. Please honey, can his bio father keep him on the days u work to avoid your boyfriend from watching him. I hope I was a lil help. God bless u all and congrats on ur new baby.

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