Natalie - posted on 06/13/2013 ( 9 moms have responded )
I was single for 5 years , During that time it was just me and my kids...Then came along the boyfriend...Now my kids hate it ! we have been together for the past year. I love him dearly . I have 4 children. 3 TEENAGE GIRLS and on boy. Girls are 17,15, and 13 . My is 5. My 5 year old and my 17 year old are ok with him and get along well. My 15 year old is cool with him sometimes and sometimes not. my 13 year old is just so against this whole relationship. She is the drama queen of the family,. She took her dads and my breakup very serious and I think she needs help. Lately she has been fighting with me a lot since I took her phone away. She fights a lot at school with a lot of different girls, and has even been to juvi for it. She has a lot of anger . She has always had an anger problem since she was little. She has faked over dosing and faked not waking up... both times we rushed her to the ER ...Come to find out she was faking...She admitted to it and thought it was a joke. Now she saying that my boyfriend hit her and raped her. Well she said this happened Thursday May 30th. She ran away the next day. She was gone for 5 days. Then when she returned . She made that accusation. First he hit her ... Then he hit and raped her. She said it happened Thursday and that is the reason she ran away. She said she had stayed home that Thursday from school , and That my boyfriend had stayed home from work. However...I got her attendance record from school and she was there the whole day. My boyfriend was at work the whole day and has proof of it on video because there are cameras at work . His boss already went thru the video and said he was there the whole day other than the hour he was with me for lunch . We spend lunch everyday together. So there's no way ! I also went through her face book (That she will not be aloud to have no more) and her behavior is just horrible. I am ashamed to say that's my daughter. The very day that she said my boyfriend raped her....She was posting pictures of herself at 10:00 pm at night all happy talking about picking out an outfit to spend the next day (the day she ran away cause my boyfriend raped her) with her love. She was already planning to go ! We have proof over texts that he was not even with her alone that day at all! I saw all her pictures that she was posting on face book while she had ran away and she is all happy and does not look like a little girl that has been raped. She did not look like she was in pain at all. Now she is saying that I am on drugs and that I need help. She is mad because I do not believe her. My family does not believe her either, But she is sticking to her word. Her dads family does believe her and that is where she is now. My whole life has been turned upside down from one day to the next...It will never be the same again !!!! Please help...WHAT DO I DO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I don't want her to ruin his life. Whether its my boyfriend or any body else....Its not right to put somebody through this if it is not true. She does not realize what she is doing and what is really sad...Is that she does not care what she is doing to me , her brother and sisters, and my boyfriend !!!!!!!!!!!!!!