Jennifer - posted on 06/27/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
I'm currently 14 1/2 weeks pregnant with a 1 year old as well. Lately my husband and I just have not been getting along...we have zero affection, zero fun, zero understanding or respect for one another. I just returned to work from mat leave, and honestly didn't think it would be this hard. I'm so tired, and still quite sick, and my daughter hasn't been sleeping well (teething) so thats making me more tired. My husband is HORRIBLE at helping with night shifts, to the point he gets angry and agressive with me and our daughter. Never physical, but honestly it worries me that he will. He's off this week, and I'm working long hours. Last night I took my daughter to bed with me as shes teething bad, but sleeps better next to me. I'm working 9 - 7 today, so wanted to do what I could to get sleep. Well she tossed and turned and kept me up til 2, at which time i put her in her crib and gave him the monitor....WELL...when she woke he freaked, called me a a Stupid C*nt F*&k and told her to shut up when she was crying. He's not usually mean, but in the middle of the night hes just evil. We said we were going to try to show more support and understanding, but I just feel like its hopeless, and i'm terrified what will happen when 2nd baby comes....when I explain I'm exhausted, and need sleep, all he says is so do i....theres no support anymore, and I think its only a matter of time before we are done. I wish that weren't the case but I cannot live with zero support, and no one to rely on.