I've been slapped in front of my daughter

Manacky Millicent - posted on 02/01/2016 ( 7 moms have responded )

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I'm involved with some one, well i wont say he is my husband but a boyfriend, we've been together for 3 years now going to 4 years,wen we met he was having a wife and a kid,they stayed together,but he was promising me to leave the wife, but all of those things was a lie until we have a baby together now she's 1 year 1 month,on the 29th Jan 2016 i confronted him about the promises he made to me, when is it going to happen?, we argue to such an extend he got angry and slapped in front my daughter, now my ear drum does not hear clearly. i love him too much, but im fed up i want to leave him, but im hurting and scared thinking how would i live without him. please help

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Dove - posted on 02/01/2016

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Leave him. Go to court for custody, visitation, and child support for your child together... and get yourself into counseling. The only way to live w/out him is just to do it. It will be hard and painful at first, but the more time that goes by (especially if you are in counseling) the easier it will be.

You just have to do it.

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You never stay with a man who hits you or abuses you. Your feelings for him do not matter once a man puts his hands on you. Leave.

Michelle - posted on 02/01/2016

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I agree with Raye and Dove.
Get custody, visitation and child support sorted out and get some counseling.
Most married men that have an affair don't leave their wife. You deserve better then the cheating idiot.

Raye - posted on 02/01/2016

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Dove's right. Get yourself into counseling. Go to court for custody/visitation and child support. You do have to co-parent with him because he will always be the father of your child. But you need to separate yourself from him romantically.

Manacky Millicent - posted on 02/01/2016

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@ Evelyn and Raye thanx for your reply,, his wife knows about us he once told her, even his family knows about our relationship,he told them he want to be with me not her coz he's tired of her drama she always cause,,i have'nt told any1 about this even my or his family.so please help me to cope without him in my life..i know my baby girl will grow .

Raye - posted on 02/01/2016

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You deserve better. Leave him. He won't leave his wife for you, and if he does, why would you want a liar and a cheat? Find a relationship with someone that is not married and will treat you better.

Ev - posted on 02/01/2016

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So you are having an affair with a married man from what I am reading in the post. He won't leave his wife for you like he promised and it is causing arguments between you and in one he hit you so hard by slapping it hurt your ear. What were you expecting him to actually do? Does his wife have any idea of what is going on? Do you really think he is going to drop her for you?

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