I wanna adopt

Lacarrie - posted on 11/23/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




Since a child meeting a close friend of mines who was adopted. I always thought to myself that I want to adopt someday. Being only 23 and engaged im wondering should I have my children first or adopt first. I want an infant to enjoy raising them up. But I want to have my own as well.


Wanda - posted on 11/23/2014




I applaud you first of all for wanting to give a needy child a home. It is a very loving thing to do.
You are pretty young still. Do you plan on waiting awhile before having children? Perhaps you would like to enjoy a few years with your new husband first creating a stable home for whichever decision you make?
I am not sure how adoption works where you live, but here is can be a lengthly process. In such a case I would suggest having your own first, then starting the process for adoption.
Perhaps taking a day at a time is best. Life can change in a minute. You could be pregnant accidentally ... Or un able to bear children.. Enjoy each day and make the decisions when the time comes. Good luck to you and your future family 😊

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