I want my bd out of my life and the baby

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He has cheated on me and left me for another woman and I learned I was pregnant. I want to abort the baby so bad but my family refuses to do that. At first I wanted to keep the baby but now I just want it terminated so bad I can't stand the dead beat father and his family. I also can't have this life having a child without a complwte family. I need some advice thank you.


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I live with them and I have no job atm. I really don't have a choice everything just hurts right now. Fck loooool

LastAcorn99 - posted on 09/18/2016




Aww…I’m so sorry about this. I can understand the anxiety that you're experiencing over this situation, but it's important that you resist the temptation to panic. Despite all the pain and hurt you’re feeling; this is primarily a question of two precious human lives: your baby's and your own. There's too much at stake to be jumping to hasty conclusions. So, slow down, take a deep breath, and remind yourself that you have all the time you need to sift through your options and do what needs to be done. I strongly suggest that you visit a Pregnancy Resource Center (www.optionline.org) in your area, the staff there will be able to provide the counsel you need at this time. Also, if you need a listening ear, I know that Focus on the Family can provide a free phone consultation with a licensed counselor if you call this number 855-382-5433. Most importantly, remember that God loves you very much and cares deeply about you and the life of your child. Hugs and prayers!

Dove - posted on 09/18/2016




Whether or not you kill your child isn't any of your family's business. It is a legal medical procedure (w/in a certain time limit), so that decision is solely between you and your doctor.

Personally speaking... I'd never kill my child regardless of my relationship w/ his/her father... but that's me. My ex left me when I was 8 months pregnant w/ our third child and I wouldn't trade my son for anything in the world. Sure, it sucks that his dad is a loser, but he's doing well in spite of that.

Ev - posted on 09/18/2016




Okay, slow down. You need to make sure you do a few things.
1) Be sure it is legal to get an abortion where you live for how far a long you are. Some places you reach a certain stage you can not abort.
2) Many other women have kids alone and get dad on child support, visitation and custody.
3) It is not your familys' choice what you do.
4) You do not have to be married to raise kids with someone.

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