i want my son away from his mum till she gets help!

DAMIEN - posted on 06/25/2013 ( 13 moms have responded )

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i split up with my sons mother at chritmas this year everything between us was ok untill one day she had me arrested for common assult wich i have pleaded not guilty to , since all this has happend iv found out she has started takin drugs on a regular basis and has left him alone in the house on more than one ocasion to go find drugs iv also heard she has left him with none drug addicts whilst she goes out partying wich is nearly every night iv contacted social servises and so has a few people who live on her street the police have been to her house about 10 times with complaints from people who live near her and some have also contacted social servises concerned about our sons welfare, im in the process of tryin to get access to him to im scared something might happen to him before i do, a woman on the street has told me she is goin to take him out the house and bring him to me if it carrys on but i dont want her or me to get into trouble if she does....... is there anything els i can do inthe mean time THANKS

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 06/26/2013

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Ok, I'll put it so maybe everyone gets it:

Ain't nothin' gonna work without PROOF. Dates and times of alleged infractions. Photos of abuse, filthy conditions, ect.

No one is going to do a damned thing without solid proof. In Eiling's situation, you "knew" a girl. You claim that she did drugs in front of her child. Did anyone take a pic of her toking it up in front of LO? You claim that she started a fight. Was a police report filed? You claim that she punched a window, broken glass, etc. Again, any reliable witnesses or photographic evidence?

That's what gets the services acting, folks. Request a welfare check on them, provide proof of infractions.

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Eiling - posted on 06/27/2013

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The police was called and took pictures of everything.
They found a weed pipe and we had loads of pictures of her smoking weed. She posted it on instagram her self.
There's even one picture of her holding a blunt and her child at the same time.
We had proof and loads of people had called child services on her.
But according to them if there is no proof of child abuse they can't do anything.
For some reason she always passes her drug test.
I think she uses her baby girls pee to pass the drug test.
She mentioned this to everyone that she does this a long time ago.

Eiling - posted on 06/26/2013

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Social services don't always work.
I knew a girl who did drugs in front of her child all the time.
She got into a fight with a friend of mine at the time.
She punched a window started bleeding everywhere and was acting like a crazy person.
She even had her kid walking all over the broken glass, bear foot.
Social services got involved and they did nothing.
She buys herself 300 dollars worth of stuff and at the end says she doesn't have money for diapers.
So the baby walks around dirty all the time.
She throws him on the bed aggressively.
She locks him in the room
and she leaves him with strange random people and he's only 2 years old.

DAMIEN - posted on 06/26/2013

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all i did was leave i didnt want to be in a violent relationship and thats how it was gettin when her head used to go she would get in my face and slap n kick me because she knows i would never react she knows how much i hate people that beat on woman this is why she is doin this to me because i wont get back with her she told me her self if she cant have me nobody can she used to say it all the time and im not trying to be big headed or anything im nothing special im just a regular guy who loves all my kids and i have 4 by the way and i would never do anything to put them in danger or do anythinmg that would risk me loosing them

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 06/26/2013

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First of all, you need to get the courts involved.

If you have a 'common assault' charge against you, that means that you somehow DID something against her, physically, that was less than lawful, or could be considered assault.

Yes, I understand that some people fabricate accusations, but generally, in a fabrication scenario, the authorities figure that out pretty quickly, rarely remanding someone into custody or pursuing a charge.

I also suggest that you both attend mediation and possibly parenting classes. Sounds like you both need to grow up a smidge, which will help you to co parent your child as he grows up.

If you are presenting everything to the authorities as you have here, you really only have allegations, yourself, and no real proof. No observations, no conversations on record, no photos, no actual proof that the claims that you've alleged actually happened.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 06/26/2013

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Then what DID you do to make her say that? Something happened.

DAMIEN - posted on 06/25/2013

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she said i attact her a few week ago wich i did not do, she used to tell me if she couldnt be with me noone could the last thing she said to me before the last time i seen my son was im guna make sure you never see him again then all this happend

~♥Little Miss - posted on 06/25/2013

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What do you mean by 'common assault' that she had you arrested for

DAMIEN - posted on 06/25/2013

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all they said to me when i phoned social services was it will all be brought up when im in court thats on 31st july and im bein charged with attacking her wich is completely false accusation

DAMIEN - posted on 06/25/2013

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thats what i want to know , something need to be done now before its to late she has completely lost controle off her self

Lakota - posted on 06/25/2013

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If the police have been there that many times and some many people have contacted social services, why is your son still in that house?

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