i want to have another baby but my fiance doesnt :( any ideas??

Mia - posted on 04/24/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )




we have a 18 month old already and i so badly want another baby around the house but my fiance doesnt idk what the big deal is we already have one and whenever i bring up the baby subject he just tells me enough and walks away any ideas on what to do??


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Mia - posted on 04/24/2012




oh god no i would never trap him lol i just think like you said its the expense part which has always been his worrie even though he owns his own line of work, and yes i understand that my son is only 18 months hes still a baby himself but hes so independant lol i just miss the baby part and want a bigger family. :)

Firebird - posted on 04/24/2012




Stop bringing it up for a while. Maybe when your 18 month old isn't a baby anymore, your fiance might have a change of heart.

Michelle - posted on 04/24/2012




Give him time. Your baby is only 18 months, enjoy him/her at this age because before you know it they will be in school.

Louise - posted on 04/24/2012




Write him a letter if he will not listen and tell him why you want another baby now.He probably feels over whelmed when you ask because men see things in monetory forms. He is thinking expense and you are thinking completion of family. Ask him to write down his response and then you can discuss it. If he really does not want another baby then I would advise not to trap him as he will resent you. You would have to be happy with not now but in the future.

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