Shane - posted on 02/21/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )
12 years ago i had a child, and was not made aware that it was mine. At age 8 i found pictures, on FB, of the mother and child, who looked like me. I got paternity test done and child support started through her county. Through the process i learned that her husband had abused her and was suppose to serve a 10 day sentance for it. I talked to a lawyer and he didn't agree with what she was asking for (no visitation), and advised me not to sign. Little did i know she had already taken off to Colorado with the husband, i still talk to her father and his sister who both confirmed their disappearing without telling anyone. So case closed due to not knowing her whereabouts. Now, 2 years later i get a letter from Arizona child support services saying she wants to get paternity and such going again. To which i call and say paternity was established, im on the birth certificate, you can reopen the previous case. They agreed, and i again looked up the fathers record in Arizona and he again was charged with domestic abuse and was extradited back to wisconsin to serve all sentances here. I am in limbo now and just am looking for assurace without paying a lawyer. I've always told her and child support people, that i just want to know my son! Does anyone know my rights...will I have to pay support? Can visitation b setup between Arizona and wisconsin. Can she b in trouble for harbor ing a fugitive? I'm sorry i am a father on a mother site, I am desperate for advice, I will get a lawyer but does anyone know my and/or her rights?
Thank you and understand if no response is given base on my sex,