Onnie - posted on 01/25/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )
When my sons father and i were about 4 weeks pregnant he left and moved out of state and i havent heard from him since. Well now i am currently 7 months pregnant with my son, I recently got into a relationship with a new guy. He tells everyone he is the daddy and that it is his son. When im at his house for the night he likes to grab a book he bought and read the stories to my belly so that our son can hear his voice and get used to him. And he does all the sweet things you would expect the excited daddy to be to do. and im happy that my son has someone like that in his life and i am thankful to have him because its all i wanted through this pregnancy was to have someone to share it with. My question is does the Biological father deserve or have a right to know about his son and about when he is born and all that information or do i have a right to not want him in my childs life since the only man my child so far knows who his daddy is, is the one i am with now?
I mean yeah i know anybody can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a daddy is the basic thing i may hear.. Cuz that was my story growing up except i know who my real dad is..
What do i do if the father does show back up in town? how would i deal with that?