C - posted on 07/17/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
DNow before everyone freaks out..my daughter is 16 and her boyfriend is 17 almost 18. They have been together for almost 2 years with no problems or fights at all. They are very supportive of each other and love each other very much. He is my daughters best friend and it's obvious. They waited a while to have sex (about 8 months)and both of them are extremely responsible. She is on the pill and use condoms every time. They have discussed with each other what the plan is if she did get pregnant (which would be to have an abortion) they are not the typical teenage relationship filled with lust and pressure to do things. They have a very serious relationship and care deeply about each other. He usually stays to 12 or 1 am down stairs watching movies/tv and what not and I'm alright with that. Let me just repeat that I KNOW they have sex and I understand that and i don't have a problem with it as long as they are responsible. It's 2012 people not 1950 They plan to always stay together no matter what be it college or being apart for long periods of time or whatever. I trust both of them completely and they are both very smart and make good decisions. I also know his parents very well and we are great friends
I just want some feedback from others. I don't want any nasty answers about becoming a grandmother or STDs(they were each others first) we already have that plan taken care of. I think them sleeping together and waking up next to each other is just because they want to spend time together and want to be close and loving..so what are your guys's thoughts?