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Okay this is a little confusing. I am a single mother to a 20 month old. There is no dad listed on the birth certificate. I know who her father is of coarse but I like the fact that he is not around. technically I am not keeping her from her father. after she was born I told him she wasn't his because I thought I should keep her from him because he is violent and told me he hears voices and the voices told him to kill me and my daughter. But I think deep down he knows I lied. He has not asked to see her. Until a couple months ago. he told me he wanted to wait for a dna test until her found a job. After that we have not spoken since. Everyone keeps saying that its wrong to keep them apart. But why should I try to make them have a relationship when he doesn't care enough.