Ev - posted on 09/08/2016 ( 8 moms have responded )
So, recently once again, I have been seeing some more of the posts about the mom's wanting to shut out the father of the child's life for various reasons. They seem to think that because the father may be abusive in nature to them that he will be to the child. Some have even said that both he and she talk about the bad things they each to to their respective families. The moms think that they are better off keeping dad off the birth certificate and away from the child not realizing how he has as much right to parent the child as they do.
I am tired of hearing all about "how it hurts me" coming from the moms. I just wish that they would stop and look outside their box and see what it sounds like to others. It sounds childish, petty, selfish, and mostly ignorant.
What purpose does it serve to keep the child from the father?
What purpose does it serve to not stop and think about how this will affect the child?
How does it make life better for you, mom?
How does it make life better for your child not to be with dad too?
Maybe these moms should have thought about some things they already knew about the fathers that they complain about in their posts and do something so they did not get pregnant and have a kid with him only to be tied to them for 18 years because of that.