I was dating someone 5 years younger then me and now we have a 3 month old baby.

Aaliyah - posted on 08/08/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




When I first met my boyfriend even though he is 5 years yonger then me I totally fell in love with him.. we decided to move in together and after one year living together i found out I was pregnant we decided to have our baby since we did talked it out and he promised me that he was ready to become mature and responsible.. when I was 3 months pregnant he started going out again and coming home at 3 am I had many conversations with him and he keep promising me that he would never do it again and sure enough when the next weekend would come he would keep doing it again. months went by and I just kept hoping that hopefully when our daughter was born he was going to change . Our beautiful daughter was born on april 20-2013.. and all the fam was all happy and excited for the baby.. but one day we had the dumbest fight out of nothing and it just got out of hand . I was soo fed up with all his bad treatment that he had gave me thru all my pregnancy that I just flipped and puched him in the face... and now we are getting seperated and his already talking and looking for girls to chat with .. UGH.. I just feel like i lost all this time with someone that it was never ready for a relationship and all this time he's been attached to his party life.. he wants 50/50 custody I dont know if I should take him to court or what should I do.??????


Natasha - posted on 08/08/2013




If he is going out and partying every weekend he doesn't need joint custody, parenting is a full time job, you can't just do it when you want. I'm not saying he's not a good father, because I don't know either of you. But it definitely sounds like hehas some major maturity and priority issues. In the long run though you just have to do whatever you think is best for your daughter.

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