Maria - posted on 08/27/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )
.like kick a table i tell her not too calmy gently and in a matter of fact way but she sobs after so i hug her..... is that a wrong way of telling her off. Should i cuddle her afterwards or not. If a family member says it too sternly she really really crys so i hug her. But im told i musnt as it tells her that its all right for her too misbehave. The same things occurred as a baby she would misbehave. But i was soft on her thinking she was only being playful and i didnt like upsetting her when she laughs and is happy. So am i wrong if i dont comfort her when she cries. My inner feeling is guilt. So do i comfort her if she crys after being told off or only if she really really is upset?